After completing a rather rough spring semester I finally got a chance this week to get back to giving speeches in my Toastmasters club, the Talk of the Town Toastmasters. After nearly a year of focusing on rebuilding the club I now have some time to work on advancing to my next public speaking certification. I’ll tell you more about what I’ve learned about leading and building a high performing club in another post. Today I’ll share my speech from this past Tuesday night.
I’m working on my Advanced Communicator Bronze pin. That requires me to work in two advanced manuals which each have five speech topics. There are fifteen advanced manuals to choose from. After you have achieved Competent Communicator status, you have your pick of any of the advanced manuals once you decide that you’re ready to move forward and become top notch at the various levels of advanced communication. The Competent Communicator designation requires you to give ten speeches out of your very first manual as a new Toastmaster. The Advanced Communicator Bronze, Silver and Gold also require ten speeches each, in addition to other requirements for the last two levels. You just get to pick your own interests from two of the five-speech manuals of your choosing.
Getting back to May 20th though, I gave my second speech from the Humorously Speaking manual. I decided to reflect on my childhood and how my next door neighbor Mr. Fred Fairbanks made his contribution - among many influences - to my going into the world of technology. His daughters were my earliest friends and it was a lot of fun reflecting on those years while writing and practicing the many drafts of this speech. So here it is. The text to my early childhood misconception on why friends’ dad was such a well dressed train driver…
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My Friends’ Dad is a Train Driver
Exposure is everything when it comes to our perceptions of the world. Let me give you an example from my life. When I was a kid I always wondered why my friends’ dad was such a well dressed train driver. If you were like me when you were younger you always understood an engineer to be a train driver, right? Well, unless you grew up in a middle class environment and had lots of neighbors and family friends in white collar professions, you probably had no idea whatsoever that engineering was also a technical career. Well, my next door neighbor was one of those types of engineer. But initially, I couldn’t figure out for the life of me why he went to work every day in a shirt and tie with a brief case.
Madame Toastmaster, fellow Toastmasters and guests, I guess I figured, “Hey, maybe the train guys like to dress nice like everybody else when they go to work.” (wait for laughter) That’s right. In my young kid’s mind I simply made it make sense to me. You know how you hear a song on the radio the first few times, never catch all the lyrics and make up phrases so that it makes sense to you every time you sing it the wrong way? That is exactly what I did with Mr. Fairbanks’s job. As far as I was concerned, he went to work, changed into his overalls and engineer’s cap, drove trains all day and then came home every night like all the other adults in the neighborhood.
Now, what did I know about trains and rail yards? Apparently, not a thing. But he was obviously a well dressed train driver. Of course as I got older and began to learn more about professions and careers and what adults really do for a living I also became more aware of what Mr. Fairbanks actually did for a living.
He was one of those military veterans who had parlayed his technical training into a post military career in the defense industry. I could tell you more about that, but Homeland Security agents might start popping out of the woodworks and take me away if I reveal too much, so we’ll just leave it at that. (wait for laughter)
I can tell you this though. He did help groom me into the engineering profession in his own way by teaching me how to repair lawn mower engines. And who knew that I would actually wind up working for Briggs and Stratton years later? If I had any patience as a child – and I’m sure I was showing early signs of ADD back then – I would have hung around his back yard more often and become more proficient at working on car engines. But what he did teach me was a sufficient spark.
My professional path started at the General Electric Co. where I learned to design appliance components. From there I moved on to planning their assembly in the production factory a few years later. It was around that time that I had a pretty good inkling that I was really more interested in pure science than engineering. I won’t bore you with the differences between the two but suffice it to say that mechanical engineering wasn’t as creative a profession as I had imagined. And the companies that I worked for over the years didn’t allow for much – O.K., ANY – creative latitude.
Remember now, I was the kid who thought my friends’ dad was a train driver so I had plenty of imagination and loads of creative energy. Even back then, at the GE of the 90’s, I was designing simple web pages with the basic Internet technology available at the time. That’s when the Internet and web first became available to the public back in ’95. But, because of my duties at that time, I never really had the opportunity to apply it there.
That same sense of creativity from years ago inspired me to go ahead and follow my passions. In fact it helped me to change direction and truly dedicate myself to the creative path. Today, I am pursuing the artistic and technical together with the chance, among other things, to program web applications, wouldn’t you know? These days the master plan is developing just as I had envisioned years ago. God knows it took long enough. But it’s all due, at least to some degree, because of my initial thought that my friends’ dad was a train driver.
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I had a blast giving this speech. From my evaluations and my comfort level at the lectern after such a long absence I can tell I’m improving. You should work on your speaking skills too. Not only will it begin to open up new opportunities for you but you may well find yourself moving up the ladder at work just because you communicate better than everybody else in the office, in the factory or where ever. Find your closest Toastmasters club, contact them for meeting time and make a visit to their next meeting. You absolutely will not regret it.