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The Children Are Not Alright But We Can Make It Right

See, it’s not just Americans who think every child having a mother and a father is the best for children and society. Even Europe where everything goes has its bulwarks against the insanity of s of families that are proliferating world-wide.

Speaking to London’s Sunday Times recently, Scottish business owner Brian Souter says Scotland is in danger of becoming a “Babylonian-Greek society” where sex is “primarily a recreational activity”. He said: “We are arguing here about what kind of society we want to live in. Are we going to be in a Babylonian-Greek-type of society, where sex is primarily a recreational activity, or are we going to stick with the Judeo-Christian tradition, where procreation is something that we want to put within a marriage context?”

His arguments for the latter are to protect society from “imploding” as he puts it. Couldn’t have said it better myself. His remarks were partly in response to the gay-marriage debates in Europe but he could use Black America as a case study on where the Babylonian-Greek lifestyle in all it’s incarnations will actually take a country.

I haven’t lost hope but as far as I’m concerned the African American community has already imploded with a nearly 73% out-of-wedlock birthrate. THIS IS UNHEARD OF!!! and it is patently unfair for any Black child suffering under such a situation. Souter must be looking at American society really close because Black people have gone way beyond reducing sex to a recreational activity. The ramifications of this fact are on public display with the detrimental behaviors of the progeny of this years-long trend. The obvious illustrations including the tacky dress habits and increasingly vocabulary-limited vulgarity in the music (and that’s just the current crop of young parents I’m talking about, not only their kids) continue to proliferate. Of peculiar interest is observing the natural course of cultural transmission with so many white kids picking up some of the sorry, saggy habits. Particularly disturbing is the growing tendency for young teen and adult females to emulate these things.

The verbal pollution from young people’s mouths has become appalling. Yes, that is also connected to particular family groupings and what is taught as acceptable language and self-respecting behavior. It’s unbelievable that so many young women in this generation allow young men to call them “bitch” and they don’t get offended. In fact it has become the new “nigger”. Some of these girls just take it from a guy like it’s their name and allow the conversation to continue as normal like there’s nothing to it. The girls from my generation would have checked that madness immediately. I’m telling you, the new bad normal is pulling us down collectively.

The backwards trend is backed by any number of statistics. According to the Pew Research Center, “The share of 30- to 44-year-olds living as unmarried couples has more than doubled since the mid-1990s.”so there really is no mystery to the genesis of these particular societal ills.

Despite the ongoing marginalization of those of us who believe in traditional views of proper family structure, I think the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) does a great job in doing what’s in the best interests of children. With more efforts like theirs perhaps we still have a chance. Yeah, more Black kids with a mother and a father raising them without some of  society’s deranged cultural activists using our children as social experiments is what’s actually in the best interests of the African American community.

As an “actionist” I try not to whine about a problem but actually do something about it. I am a traditionalist who believes every child deserves a mother and a father who are in fact a man and a woman. That’s not a political statement of social warfare. That’s a fact of our cultural welfare.

I could write extensively about my beliefs on one way of living versus the other but NOM has already done a significant job of that since 2007. Are their particular efforts about gay bashing or intruding upon individual rights? Of course not. Is any of this about hating on single parenthood. Again, certainly not. You’d have to be crazy to make such kindergarten level oversimplifications. It’s about children’s rights and if you like me are tired of Black kids being sociopolitical footballs then do something about it. I’m challenging you to do what I’m doing this week. Contribute to the National Organization for Marriage and show greater support for groups like it to help turn the implosive tide.

Beyond political action though, young ladies today it’s about you in particular. Stand up for yourselves and your own well-being. Here are a few reasons that you young ladies (and you are young ladies, not bitches) valuing yourselves more benefits all of society. Before you hit the sack with a guy, make him commit to an altar bound promise to you and your future children that you will have together. Before you give up the goodies too soon make him earn it. Tell young sir, “No wedding, no womb!”.

 

 

Be sure you keep these thoughts at the top of your mind with a cool new beat from Speech. Share it with your friends and lets all turn this thing around.

 

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Supreme Court Ruling Protects Chicagoans From Mayor Daley

Thank God the Supreme Court overturned the idiotic gun control laws of Chicago. Even though Mayor Daley’s administration is working feverishly to respond with new laws to restrict hand gun purchases within the city limits, we finally have a chance to protect ourselves and not be legalized victims. For the first time in years criminals have to take into account the possibility of actually dying before committing murder and mayhem. I’m thoroughly convinced all it will take is capping a few malcontents like the dogs they are and we’ll see a precipitous decline in violence. The statistics back up my assertion but more on that later.

As hopeless and desperate as some people say some of these guys are I don’t think any criminal is so depressed as to WANT to be killed to make a score. No doubt some have lost all hope and believe life is useless but not most. But hey, if a particular bad boy is ready to risk life itself, oh well. Help him meet is maker is what I say. After all they’re quite happy to help you get there.

While I completely support social programs to help people turn their lives around and improve their conditions they are not the one and only answer for all ills. Why, because everyone will not be changed. Programs to create knowledge and opportunities definitely help change lives. I know plenty of people who have been helped by any variety of government and non-profit programs. However, with the wide variety of opportunities available in neighborhoods nationwide there are still people who won’t take advantage of them but who instead will run headlong towards making wrong life choices with no consideration for or maybe no care for the consequences. Consequently we still have to deal with those types simultaneously while we’re changing the lives of others who want to do it the right way.

So I’m encouraging law abiding Chicagoans and citizens around the country to legally purchase handguns immediately. Register for shooting classes at approved ranges and learn how to properly use your weapon. Statistics show that where a high rate of legal gun ownership exists, gun crime practically does not exist. For those idealists who have embraced their victomhood, let them have it. I’m perfectly O.K. with them being thug target practice. But not me.

Also, join the National Rifle Association which advocates for 2nd Amendment rights as outlined in the U.S. Constitution. If someone breaks into your home and threatens you do what’s necessary. Better them than you and if someone has to die at least now there’s a better chance of you being alive to tell the tale.

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Enough of the Disrespectful Sea World Jokes

A rare rant from me but I have to get it off my chest. On behalf of science and scientists can we please chill with the Sea World wise cracks? Zoos and aquariums – including their entertainment venues – are the only way most people are going to learn about the natural world and the animals that populate it. Fewer people will go hiking and camping than will go to a nice tourist attraction such as Sea World to learn and be wowed by nature’s wonders.

That’s not to mention the fact that you’re subtly discouraging amazing career options for young people who read your posts and comments. Watching a documentary pales in comparison to seeing these great creatures up close with your own eyes so let’s be respectful please.

End of rant. Rest in peace Dawn Brancheau, Sea World trainer.

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Sex No Longer the Biggest Online Draw

It’s official. The most popular derivitive of the world’s oldest profession is no longer the main draw online. Pornography has been surpassed by social media for the first time in Internet history. So says Eric Qualman of Socialnomics – Social Media Blog. He refers to it conceptually; “Socialnomics” as a massive social economic shift.

Learn more on this and other characteristics of the changing tide on his site and in his book, “Socialnomics: How Social Media Transforms the Way We Do Business”.

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Single Ladies and the Beyonce Misdirection

For all you single ladies with relationship issues, you’ll notice that Beyonce “isn’t” one of you. I know it’s a shock but Jay-Z put a ring on it a long time ago. And since you are not her, here’s what I recommend to improve your odds of success with the guys, especially one who might consider meeting you at the altar one day.

Get out of the “I-I-I”, “me-me-me” zone. Can you cook or are you taking the liberated woman thing to a totally disadvantageous end on your part? Seriously, can you reinforce that nurturing tendency within and “drop those muffins like they’re hot?” Take that tip and others to heart in this great life tutorial spoken best by your own species. Although I have posted on this subject before I don’t think I could have written it or said it better myself.

Take a read, learn the lessons.

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Meet Jim Crow Joe, Republican From South Carolina

Uncouth US Representative Joe Wilson has been brought to heel quickly by his Republican associates. After losing his composure in the halls of Congress last night and calling President Obama a lie during his address Wilson called the White House personally to uncork foot from mouth. Just when you thought Strom Thurmond was good and burried he’s apparently reincarnated in this guy. I imagine he’s still rinsing out the pebbles. How’s that shoe leather tasting now Joe? Congratulations on continuing to represent your backwards state so well.

Representative Wilson showed none of the respect that is due to the President and he is justifiably being publicly vilified by the likes of me. Whether the President of the United States uses strong language or not you always show deference to him as a guest of the Congress. Respect the position.

Quite frankly I was ready to shut down Genius Joe’s servers because of his disrespectful outburst. Looks like my fellow bloggers and other Americans beat me to the punch though because the connection to his site kept timing out last night. As of this moment this morning the site is down for maintenance. I think Joe is getting the message.

Although he has done the right thing with his apology, in my view there are more consequences to be paid, just so he really gets the message so here’s how to get in touch with the Gentleman (right) from South Carolina. Whenever his House of Representatives site comes back up send him a message. Until then call his office at 202-225-2452 and make your disgust known.

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Prepared Remarks of President Barack Obama Back to School Event Arlington, Virginia September 8, 2009

Here’s the link to the President’s remarks today to save in your web favorites. The text below is the speech in it’s entirety.

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The President: Hello everyone – how’s everybody doing today? I’m here with students at Wakefield High School in Arlington, Virginia. And we’ve got students tuning in from all across America, kindergarten through twelfth grade. I’m glad you all could join us today.

I know that for many of you, today is the first day of school. And for those of you in kindergarten, or starting middle or high school, it’s your first day in a new school, so it’s understandable if you’re a little nervous. I imagine there are some seniors out there who are feeling pretty good right now, with just one more year to go. And no matter what grade you’re in, some of you are probably wishing it were still summer, and you could’ve stayed in bed just a little longer this morning.

I know that feeling. When I was young, my family lived in Indonesia for a few years, and my mother didn’t have the money to send me where all the American kids went to school. So she decided to teach me extra lessons herself, Monday through Friday – at 4:30 in the morning.

Now I wasn’t too happy about getting up that early. A lot of times, I’d fall asleep right there at the kitchen table. But whenever I’d complain, my mother would just give me one of those looks and say, “This is no picnic for me either, buster.”

So I know some of you are still adjusting to being back at school. But I’m here today because I have something important to discuss with you. I’m here because I want to talk with you about your education and what’s expected of all of you in this new school year.

Now I’ve given a lot of speeches about education. And I’ve talked a lot about responsibility.

I’ve talked about your teachers’ responsibility for inspiring you, and pushing you to learn.

I’ve talked about your parents’ responsibility for making sure you stay on track, and get your homework done, and don’t spend every waking hour in front of the TV or with that Xbox.

I’ve talked a lot about your government’s responsibility for setting high standards, supporting teachers and principals, and turning around schools that aren’t working where students aren’t getting the opportunities they deserve.

But at the end of the day, we can have the most dedicated teachers, the most supportive parents, and the best schools in the world – and none of it will matter unless all of you fulfill your responsibilities. Unless you show up to those schools; pay attention to those teachers; listen to your parents, grandparents and other adults; and put in the hard work it takes to succeed.

And that’s what I want to focus on today: the responsibility each of you has for your education. I want to start with the responsibility you have to yourself.

Every single one of you has something you’re good at. Every single one of you has something to offer. And you have a responsibility to yourself to discover what that is. That’s the opportunity an education can provide.

Maybe you could be a good writer – maybe even good enough to write a book or articles in a newspaper – but you might not know it until you write a paper for your English class. Maybe you could be an innovator or an inventor – maybe even good enough to come up with the next iPhone or a new medicine or vaccine – but you might not know it until you do a project for your science class. Maybe you could be a mayor or a Senator or a Supreme Court Justice, but you might not know that until you join student government or the debate team.

And no matter what you want to do with your life – I guarantee that you’ll need an education to do it. You want to be a doctor, or a teacher, or a police officer? You want to be a nurse or an architect, a lawyer or a member of our military? You’re going to need a good education for every single one of those careers. You can’t drop out of school and just drop into a good job. You’ve got to work for it and train for it and learn for it.

And this isn’t just important for your own life and your own future. What you make of your education will decide nothing less than the future of this country. What you’re learning in school today will determine whether we as a nation can meet our greatest challenges in the future.

You’ll need the knowledge and problem-solving skills you learn in science and math to cure diseases like cancer and AIDS, and to develop new energy technologies and protect our environment. You’ll need the insights and critical thinking skills you gain in history and social studies to fight poverty and homelessness, crime and discrimination, and make our nation more fair and more free. You’ll need the creativity and ingenuity you develop in all your classes to build new companies that will create new jobs and boost our economy.

We need every single one of you to develop your talents, skills and intellect so you can help solve our most difficult problems. If you don’t do that – if you quit on school – you’re not just quitting on yourself, you’re quitting on your country.

Now I know it’s not always easy to do well in school. I know a lot of you have challenges in your lives right now that can make it hard to focus on your schoolwork.

I get it. I know what that’s like. My father left my family when I was two years old, and I was raised by a single mother who struggled at times to pay the bills and wasn’t always able to give us things the other kids had. There were times when I missed having a father in my life. There were times when I was lonely and felt like I didn’t fit in.

So I wasn’t always as focused as I should have been. I did some things I’m not proud of, and got in more trouble than I should have. And my life could have easily taken a turn for the worse.

But I was fortunate. I got a lot of second chances and had the opportunity to go to college, and law school, and follow my dreams. My wife, our First Lady Michelle Obama, has a similar story. Neither of her parents had gone to college, and they didn’t have much. But they worked hard, and she worked hard, so that she could go to the best schools in this country.

Some of you might not have those advantages. Maybe you don’t have adults in your life who give you the support that you need. Maybe someone in your family has lost their job, and there’s not enough money to go around. Maybe you live in a neighborhood where you don’t feel safe, or have friends who are pressuring you to do things you know aren’t right.

But at the end of the day, the circumstances of your life – what you look like, where you come from, how much money you have, what you’ve got going on at home – that’s no excuse for neglecting your homework or having a bad attitude. That’s no excuse for talking back to your teacher, or cutting class, or dropping out of school. That’s no excuse for not trying.

Where you are right now doesn’t have to determine where you’ll end up. No one’s written your destiny for you. Here in America, you write your own destiny. You make your own future.

That’s what young people like you are doing every day, all across America.

Young people like Jazmin Perez, from Roma, Texas. Jazmin didn’t speak English when she first started school. Hardly anyone in her hometown went to college, and neither of her parents had gone either. But she worked hard, earned good grades, got a scholarship to Brown University, and is now in graduate school, studying public health, on her way to being Dr. Jazmin Perez.

I’m thinking about Andoni Schultz, from Los Altos, California, who’s fought brain cancer since he was three. He’s endured all sorts of treatments and surgeries, one of which affected his memory, so it took him much longer – hundreds of extra hours – to do his schoolwork. But he never fell behind, and he’s headed to college this fall.

And then there’s Shantell Steve, from my hometown of Chicago, Illinois. Even when bouncing from foster home to foster home in the toughest neighborhoods, she managed to get a job at a local health center; start a program to keep young people out of gangs; and she’s on track to graduate high school with honors and go on to college.

Jazmin, Andoni and Shantell aren’t any different from any of you. They faced challenges in their lives just like you do. But they refused to give up. They chose to take responsibility for their education and set goals for themselves. And I expect all of you to do the same.

That’s why today, I’m calling on each of you to set your own goals for your education – and to do everything you can to meet them. Your goal can be something as simple as doing all your homework, paying attention in class, or spending time each day reading a book. Maybe you’ll decide to get involved in an extracurricular activity, or volunteer in your community. Maybe you’ll decide to stand up for kids who are being teased or bullied because of who they are or how they look, because you believe, like I do, that all kids deserve a safe environment to study and learn. Maybe you’ll decide to take better care of yourself so you can be more ready to learn. And along those lines, I hope you’ll all wash your hands a lot, and stay home from school when you don’t feel well, so we can keep people from getting the flu this fall and winter.

Whatever you resolve to do, I want you to commit to it. I want you to really work at it.

I know that sometimes, you get the sense from TV that you can be rich and successful without any hard work — that your ticket to success is through rapping or basketball or being a reality TV star, when chances are, you’re not going to be any of those things.

But the truth is, being successful is hard. You won’t love every subject you study. You won’t click with every teacher. Not every homework assignment will seem completely relevant to your life right this minute. And you won’t necessarily succeed at everything the first time you try.

That’s OK. Some of the most successful people in the world are the ones who’ve had the most failures. JK Rowling’s first Harry Potter book was rejected twelve times before it was finally published. Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team, and he lost hundreds of games and missed thousands of shots during his career. But he once said, “I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

These people succeeded because they understand that you can’t let your failures define you – you have to let them teach you. You have to let them show you what to do differently next time. If you get in trouble, that doesn’t mean you’re a troublemaker, it means you need to try harder to behave. If you get a bad grade, that doesn’t mean you’re stupid, it just means you need to spend more time studying.

No one’s born being good at things, you become good at things through hard work. You’re not a varsity athlete the first time you play a new sport. You don’t hit every note the first time you sing a song. You’ve got to practice. It’s the same with your schoolwork. You might have to do a math problem a few times before you get it right, or read something a few times before you understand it, or do a few drafts of a paper before it’s good enough to hand in.

Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it. I do that every day. Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to admit when you don’t know something, and to learn something new. So find an adult you trust – a parent, grandparent or teacher; a coach or counselor – and ask them to help you stay on track to meet your goals.

And even when you’re struggling, even when you’re discouraged, and you feel like other people have given up on you – don’t ever give up on yourself. Because when you give up on yourself, you give up on your country.

The story of America isn’t about people who quit when things got tough. It’s about people who kept going, who tried harder, who loved their country too much to do anything less than their best.

It’s the story of students who sat where you sit 250 years ago, and went on to wage a revolution and found this nation. Students who sat where you sit 75 years ago who overcame a Depression and won a world war; who fought for civil rights and put a man on the moon. Students who sat where you sit 20 years ago who founded Google, Twitter and Facebook and changed the way we communicate with each other.

So today, I want to ask you, what’s your contribution going to be? What problems are you going to solve? What discoveries will you make? What will a president who comes here in twenty or fifty or one hundred years say about what all of you did for this country?

Your families, your teachers, and I are doing everything we can to make sure you have the education you need to answer these questions. I’m working hard to fix up your classrooms and get you the books, equipment and computers you need to learn. But you’ve got to do your part too. So I expect you to get serious this year. I expect you to put your best effort into everything you do. I expect great things from each of you. So don’t let us down – don’t let your family or your country or yourself down. Make us all proud. I know you can do it.

Thank you, God bless you, and God bless America.

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Can You Overwrought Partisan Parents Get Over It Already?

All the anal haters have amped up their political self righteous denial of civic engagement even after President Obama has amended the wording of the letter writing lesson plan component of his address to America’s school children tomorrow. Fortunately negative publicity almost always guarantees increased viewership and listenership so all the furor will likely result in another blockbuster internet event by the Internet President. (Take that you closed minded boobs)

The retrograde Psuedo-Patriots have once again neutered their children’s opportunity to be a part of history. The first time was denying the opportunity to view the most historic event to this point in the 21st century, President Obama’s inauguration. And now, strike two. Think of the millions of kids who won’t be able to tell their children years from now that they participated directly in this event. Imagine further how they won’t be able to give a sensible reason, without feeling they have to insult grandma and grandpa by revealing their parents bigotry, about why they missed the opportunity to participate in the national dialogue on education with the Leader of the Free World. These are obviously the same parents and school systems around the country who saw the inauguration as irrelevant to lesson plans and educational goals. Laughable, literally.

Neil Steinberg in Sunday’s Chicago SunTimes addressed the matter in his story titled “Hate Denies Kids A Link To Obama”. He recalled his teacher wheeling in the school T.V. when President Nixon addressed the nation’s children decades ago. Steinberg was impressed with Nixon and his Democrat parents didn’t suffer conniption fits. In fact his father encouraged him to write to Nixon about his impressions. As an 8 year old he didn’t follow up on it but dad wasn’t going to lose any sleep over it one way or the other. Lesson and clue to today’s parents.

School systems everywhere are predictably wimping out, especially here around the Chicago area. Numerous suburban districts have been scared off by the so-called controversy. So much for participatory civics. Thanks a lot spineless superintendents of Illinois. So far you’re impressing me about as much as some of the clue bug educational administrators I thought I’d left behind in Alabama – but I digress. (I wonder what the state’s favorite race baiter Sen. Richard Shelby has been saying about this one?)

How the leaders of school districts can think the President’s taking time to encourage our children to have a great start to the school year doesn’t complement the curriculum is beyond me. The fact that Reagan and Bush gave similar address obviously escapes the memory of the Radical Republican Sore Losers. And as one source has informed me, Reagan also “indoctrinated” the nation’s children about the value of tax cuts years ago. But that was “different” wasn’t it? HA!

America still suffers from an achievement gap (mediocrity vs excellence) and a serious technology gap (African Americans vs the rest of the population). Our kids see the consequences from a unique class room perspective. No doubt they can give insight that the rest of us would miss and perhaps never consider. Fortunately my kids are in a school that will show the web cast and whether or not there’s a formal letter writing activity afterwards my children will be doing so. I’m making sure of it personally. Are you going to respect the time honored tradition of Presidential addresses to students? Are you going to teach your children the time honored tradition of writing a letter to the President?

Here’s what I want you to do. While the midget-brained parents with their heads stuck in the sand force their kids to miss out, every one of you should take your children to school tomorrow. Not only that but stay for the webcast. Don’t wallow in ignorance just because so many others insist on doing so. Teach your children to be forward thinking problem solvers and make sure they write those letters to the President.

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African Black Soap

If your regular store bought soaps are creating a sensitive reaction in your skin or you’re not getting the cleansing effect you were hoping for maybe a more natural solution is the answer to that problem. I recently came across a product called African Black Soap at an arts festival. If you’re familiar with shea butter that is typically sold by African arts and spices venders at the usual arts and cultural fairs around the country then the Black soap is usually not far away.

The ingredients include the foundational component created from the skin of the plantain fruit with palm oil or palm kernel oil to form the soap. The plantain is a natural source of vitamin A, E and iron. It helps exfoliate your skin and reduce acne among other benefits. We’ve recently started using the Nubian Heritage brand which includes oats and aloe. It has worked well for me. I have also seen this Dudu-Osun brand at the fairs.

Since Black soap doesn’t have the typical additives it should work well as a healthy alternative for those of you have major illnesses. It’s another of those healthy cleaning options recommended for cancer patients for instance. Variations of the base may include shea butter or coconut oil in place of palm oil depending on the region of origin. Do some web searching or stop in your nearest health food store and experiment with two or three different formulations to see which particular type works best for your skin health needs.

Some sites that I’ve searched on the subject say that Black soap in the hard bar form isn’t the real thing. They say color is added to give it a darker than normal look. So maybe part of your experiment will range from the bar form to the more traditional beige-to-brown hued block form of the soap. An African dealer we talked to told us that the raw form he sells may be a little too strong and could irritate the skin if you haven’t tried it before so he told us to maybe try a version from a store first.

As I mentioned I’m impressed with the store brand since it has all the components but I think we’re going to try one of the more regional brands next time and see if we can’t get the maximum benefits. I also encourage you to buy a bar and bless your skin.

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