Happy Father’s Day to all the men who play or have ever played that role in some kid’s life. Even if you’re not the biological parent, you qualify as extended family to someone if you are that teacher or preacher, coach, deacon, neighbor or something that some child looks up to. Or as in my case there’s an adult who remembers and appreciates your example from years before.

So today, especially to my brother, uncles, baseball coaches, Sunday school teachers, church deacons then and now and neighbors who lived a life of responsible moral example I say thank you. I strive my best to match your standards as I walk each day.

And for those who may not be feeling it for your old man today, for whatever reason, keep this scriptural reference in mind and let go of the hard feelings. (Dang, is he going Bible again? Uh, yeah. It’s Sunday.). My sister had to hip me to the unconditional nature of this verse a few years ago. I hope it helps you too, who ever you are.

From Exodus 20:12 (NIV)

“Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you. ”

I guarantee you that preachers and priests all around the country are going to be reminding you of this today during your services. You don’t do it when or if you feel like it. Doesn’t matter if you think he deserves your love or respect. Not dependent upon how he’s living or acting at the moment. God’s not flaky like we are sometimes. He just said do it…period.

So if that man is still alive take that weight off your soul and put the ball in his court. How you think he may respond isn’t important. Follow the Godly imperative, call him today and tell him you love him.