Has your pastor had to lecture the congregation about the inappropriate use of technology in church recently? I think I already know the answer to this one. Although technology has leapt forward, our public manners haven’t necessarily kept the same pace so I think now is as good a time as any to review a couple of the finer points of church etiquette for the 21st century. People, playing with your cell phones during church services really has to stop.
This may truly be new info for those of you who don’t have a family history of church attendance so I’ll give you guys the benefit of the doubt – for a minute. I suppose it’s possible that you simply may not know that there are different expectations of behavior in church than in other public places so consider yourselves aware now. It’s those experienced Christians who do know better who should actually be ashamed of themselves. But here is where all parties need to get it together once and for all.
There’s a concept of reverence in the realm of faith that we all need to respect. You’re supposed to walk in the door of the church house in a spirit and mood of worship, not playfulness. Preachers, bishops and priests have gotten used to having to remind worshipers these last few years to put their phones on vibrate or turn them off altogether to avoid being interrupted by digital ring tones of every sort. Do you know I even heard a raunchy ring tone break into a weekend men’s meeting one time? And the guy picked up and started talking! As a rule, you don’t want T.I. or Kanye busting out with a verse while you’re learning how to get your soul saved or how to live your life better.
It seems the development of the small keyboard has become something altogether different for men and women of the cloth to deal with lately. So, if the preacher gets irritated and calls you out for playing with the latest digital inventions don’t play dumb and act like you’re offended. You brought it on yourself by not thinking and by acting out of turn. Show the respect that is due by being focused on the preached message. Don’t text while the preacher is preaching. Listen! Don’t tweet the sermon or the goings on during service to your friends. That’s silly. If you have to share do what we virtual spiritual types already do. Take notes on the church program and blog, tweet or text it later. You will have had time to reflect on the message and the music – maybe even looked at the reference scriptures, hint, hint – and have something truly substantive to share with your techie friends.
If you have a nice pastor like I do he may corral all the offenders and call you out collectively to spare you individual embarrassment. The point is that playing with your electronic toys in church is no different than talking out loud during the sermon or homily so cool your jets for a few moments of spiritual reflection and enrichment.
Back to those of us who do know better. How about let’s actually do better? Show a little courtesy to the holy man or woman in the pulpit by paying attention. It is disrespectful to be texting or tweeting during church services. Have I drummed it in deeply enough? You’re there to learn, not to play. If you’re giving a play-by-play of the service then you’re not actually paying sufficient attention to take it in. Not to mention that all that clickety clack is also distracting to the rest of us.
I assure you that it won’t kill you to de-virtualize and cut the digital umbilical cord for a while. And wouldn’t the day of the celebration of our Savior’s death and resurrection be a great day to start a good old habit? So show some tact and share the word with substance afterwards. Oh yeah, Happy Resurrection Day.